When your words can't reach her, shared understanding can.
You miss her. Not the younger version. The one who used to tell you everything.
Now every conversation feels careful. You worry about saying the wrong thing. She pulls away when you're trying to help. You can see she's struggling, but she doesn't always let you in. And if you're honest, sometimes it hurts. The problem isn't that either of you stopped caring. It's that neither of you was ever taught what's happening underneath the emotions. This bundle gives you both the same map.
Because what you want most is to see her hurting less, and to be someone she lets back in.
You keep trying. It keeps coming out wrong.
You ask if she's okay. She says fine. You offer help. She hears criticism. You reach for her. She pulls back. Nothing is wrong with either of you. You just lost the shared words you used to have. Here is what changes when you find them again.
What moms notice after reading together
- She brought up something she'd been holding onto for weeks, all on her own.
- Our arguments got shorter, because we finally understood what was underneath them.
- A quiet car ride stopped feeling like a wall and started feeling okay.
- For the first time in a long time, we felt like we were on the same team.
- We actually talk now, instead of just living around each other.
From someone who's been on both sidesCreated by someone who understands both sides.
Jacqui was a teen mom, a Nurse Practitioner in adolescent health for 15 years, and a mindset mentor for thousands of families. She built these tools after seeing the same thing again and again: girls who weren't broken, moms who cared deeply, and neither with the language they needed.
- 300,000+ copies sold
- 30+ years helping teens and families
- Real psychology, no lectures
A complete set for her. A complete set for you.
Mother & Daughter Connection Bundle
One set gives her the tools to work through what she's facing. One helps you understand what she's up against, so you actually know how to help.
For Your Daughter
- Helps her understand why her thoughts spiral
- Gives her tools to calm big emotions and self-doubt
- Helps her practice the skills so it feels natural
For You
- Understand what's happening beneath her emotions, and your reactions.
- Gives you language that does not feel like a lecture
- Helps you respond with calmness
Add the Bundle
Give her real tools, and a way back to you.
Imagine watching her steady herself again
- She tells you about her day again, without you pulling every word out of her
- She comes to you because she wants to, not because you asked
- Arguments become conversations
- She builds confidence from the inside out
- You stop carrying the weight of trying to fix everything
You don't become a perfect family. You simply feel close to her again.
What experts and parents are saying
Real families. Real results.
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I bought the teenage version for my daughter and she LOVES it! She told me after her track meet how much the book and workbook have really helped her. I'm excited to have the adult version arrive for me in a couple of weeks!
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This journal is a perfect addition to helping teens find their confidence. The concepts are affirming, encouraging, and powerful enough to make an impact from the first few pages.
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This book needs to be on every teen girl's bookshelf, after her parents have read it first! Jacqui teaches in an easy to understand way how your daughter's mind creates thoughts, feelings and beliefs that may no longer serve her as she grows up.
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This book literally saved my house and my teen. It helped ME understand how her brain works and stop thinking it was behavior issues.
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I went to say goodnight and found the book open on her bed. She said it helps her 'chill me out.'
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My daughter and I have started reading this and we are having some awesome conversations!
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I bought it per my 13-year-old's request and she LOVED IT!
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She hates touchy-feely self-help, but she said she actually liked your book. That's high praise from her.
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As an adolescent psychotherapist, it's full of tips to overcome limiting beliefs. I'll recommend this to the families I work with.
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She shows simple steps to take any teen from self-doubt to confidence, in a way anyone can understand and implement.
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My granddaughter takes notes and shows interest in learning new ways to cope. I'm ordering another for my other granddaughter.
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I now understand how my mind thinks, so I can recognize when I need help and how to help myself. I feel more able to talk without feeling judged.
Which path fits your family?
Start with the set just for her. Grow stronger together. Or bring the whole family in.
Just for Her
The Teen Girl Toolkit
For when you want to help her first.
$43.22$50.85Save 15%
- Helps her finally understand why she feels the way she does.
- Replaces self-doubt with confidence she can actually feel.
- Helps her see herself the way you already do.
Stronger Together
Mother & Daughter Toolkit
For moms who want to grow alongside her.
$79.57$113.69Save 30%
- A complete set for her and one for you
- Learn the same language and grow side by side
- Pinky promise bracelets to keep you close
The Whole Family
The Family Bundle
For moms who want the whole family in.
$99.95$148.59Save 33%
- A full set for your daughter, your son, and you
- Everyone learning the same language at home
- The whole house on the same page
Questions Moms Ask
Do we have to read at the same time?
No. Each book works on its own. The benefit of the bundle is that you both learn the same core concepts, so the shared language builds naturally, even if you each read at your own pace.
My daughter refuses to read. Will this work?
Jacqui wrote these for teens who resist traditional self-help. The chapters are short and conversational, and the ideas feel more like discoveries than lessons. Many teens who swore they'd never read one finished in a week.
What ages is this for?
The teen book is written for girls 13 to 18+. The adult book is for you, anyone 19 and up.
What's included?
Both books, both companion journals, both audiobooks, and two connection bracelets, one for you and one for her.
We're going through something serious. Is this enough?
These are powerful tools for self-awareness and mindset, but they are not a replacement for professional mental health support. If your family is navigating something serious, please use them alongside professional care, not instead of it.
How soon does it ship?
All orders ship within 5 business days by USPS with tracking. Orders over $75 ship free. Returns are accepted within 30 days.
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I haven't read the whole thing but what I have and the journals is amazing and the girls I bought it for love it
J
Learn some things about your mind that should have come as an "owner's manual" when you were born. Why we weren't all taught these things as children in school is beyond me. This knowledge can profoundly change the way you think, feel, and interact with the world of people around you. Get your copy today and begin operating your mind like you were meant to!! Five stars. Highly recommended.
K
This book is special because the author tells about both the pros and cons of our subconscious mind, and shows us where other systems fall short (example: the power of attraction, positive thinking systems)
Highly recommend this book!! Great for people that struggle with mental health.
J
I’ve read my share of self-help books and have to say this book was exactly what I needed. The author delivered what she promised- broke down difficult concepts into easy to understand nuggets. Thank you Jacqui for this awesome guide.
J
Bought 2 for my granddaughters
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My 13 yr old daughter loves it. She does it out loud with me and I wanna get the adult one now for myself.
S
This was a good book. Very informative and helpful
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Good for pre teens and teens to help them cope with whatever feelings they may or may not have. Comes with a journal for them to write in. Fast shipping
M
Great product
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Teen Girls Paperback Book
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Adult Readers: Paperback Book
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I like the way they're set up
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I'm so excited to have found this book and I'm excited to read it with my girls
Gone strong youth group
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Love it! Getting teen versions for grandchildren!
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Just started and liking it so far
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Just received it yesterday from what I've read so far it a good read 📚
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I love large-print docs. It makes everything easier to read and understand. It's a very great read that makes you think. After reading her book, I know I am not the only one. Much LOVE to the author
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Awesome! Loved the easy read.
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Going to start book today!
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Love it! I was glued. Read it in two days.
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Went well with book
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I like large prints
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Excellent book.
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I love it