Raise a Calm, Confident Daughter Who Believes in Herself—Even When Life Gets Hard

An award-winning teen self-help book with simple, science-based tools moms trust to help their girls quiet anxiety, stop overthinking, and build real confidence.

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The User’s Guide to the Teen Mind

I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me!
Styled Text Give your daughter the gift of confidence and resilience—because she deserves to thrive, not just survive.
Instead of telling teens to “just think positive,” this book helps teen girls understand how their minds work—so confidence, calm, and resilience can develop in a healthy, lasting way.

Imagine a Life Where Your Daughter:

✅ Feels confident and at ease in her own skin
✅ Stays calm and grounded during tough moments
✅ Trusts herself and approaches challenges with courage
Start her journey toward greater confidence and emotional resilience today!
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GIVE THE GIFT OF FEARLESS LIVING: UNLEASH HER INNER CALM AND CONFIDENCE

Does your heart sink every time you see your teen daughter weighed down by anxiety and stress? Do you wish you could give her tools that actually help build her confidence—without pressure, labels, or forced positivity?

Picture this: Your daughter wakes up with a sense of calm. She trusts herself.

Whether a teen succeeds depends on how she understands her thoughts, emotions, and beliefs.

But most teens are never taught how their mind works or why negative thoughts and overthinking feel so automatic.

That's where I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me! comes in.

Written by Jacqui Letran, Teen Confidence Expert and Nurse Practitioner with 30 years of experience working with young adults, this multi-award-winning book helps teen girls understand how their minds influence their emotions, confidence, and everyday choices.

Rather than offering quick fixes or telling teens what they should feel, this book explains why the fear, overthinking, and self-doubt show up so easily and how to work with the mind instead of fighting it.

The language is clear, relatable, and teen friendly. There is no therapy jargon or textbook overwhelm, so girls feel understood, not analyzed.

This Book is Especially Helpful for Teen Girls Who:
  • Overthink or struggle with self-doubt
  • Want tools that actually work
  • Like understanding why they feel the way they do
  • Don't connect with traditional, lecture-style self-help
  • Are thoughtful, curious, and self-aware
Imagine a Future Where Your Daughter:
✅ Stops spiraling into overwhelm and thinks clearly instead
✅ Stays calm and confident when situations feel challenging
✅ Makes decisions she trusts and stands by them
✅ Handles school, friendships, and life with resilience
✅ Understands her mind and knows how to lead it

This isn't just a book, it's her foundation of happiness and success. Because these are skills your daughter can use long after the teen years.

Teen girls love this book because the examples are real, relatable, and practical. Parents, educators, and counselors appreciate that it build self-awareness and confidence without labels, pressure, or toxic positivity.
Publisher A Healed Mind
Language English
Reading Age 13+
Page Count 132
Product Weight Paperback 5.6 oz / Hardcover 10.2 oz / Bundle 12.2 oz
Product Dimensions 5.5 x 0.3 x 8.5 inches
Paperback ISBN 978-0997624403
Hardcover ISBN 978-1952719073

How many times have you been told by well-meaning parents, adults, or even your friends that you should just stop thinking or feeling a certain way? They tell you that the problems you have are all in your head. They tell you to stop making a big deal out of things, that you’re too sensitive, and there is no reason to be nervous or anxious.

And yet, you are. You don’t know what to think or how to feel. You feel tense and nervous. Others seem to have it so easy. But for you, life is difficult and so unfair!

Your situation may seem hopeless; perhaps you have even concluded that you were just “born that way” and there is nothing you can do to change.

But what if you are wrong about that conclusion? What if there was a way for you to create the changes you desperately desire? What if I can teach you how to take control of your mind, thoughts, and feelings? Would you want to learn how to do that for yourself?

The power of the human mind is incredible. It is capable of creating horrible life experiences, and it is capable of creating happy, successful ones, too. It might not feel that way right now, but you do get to choose which life experiences you’ll have.

Once you learn easy, yet highly effective ways to take charge of your mind, you’ll find that you have the power to create the life you want and deserve. The power to create permanent, positive change is available to you no matter what you are struggling with.

Stop wasting your energy and time on those old, useless emotions and thoughts. Today is the day to change your life experiences.

This book will show you how to:

  • Challenge your old negative belief patterns.
  • Stop unhealthy thoughts and feelings.
  • Create positive life experiences for yourself.
  • Stay calm and in control in any situation.
  • Unleash the power of your mind to create the life you want and deserve.

Everyone’s journey to happiness begins with the belief that happiness is possible. Even if your personal experiences have led you to believe you will have a difficult life filled with stress, anxiety, and unhappiness, I will show you that you do have other options. You can learn to believe that happiness is possible for you.

In this book, I will show you how to take charge of your mind to overcome your obstacles and struggles. I will show you simple, yet powerful principles to strengthen your self-belief that leads to a solid foundation for happiness and success.

The next time somebody asks you, “Why can’t you just control yourself?” you can smile and thank them for the gentle reminder and instantly take control of your thoughts and feelings again.

You are the key to your success and happiness.

Close your eyes and imagine for a moment how wonderful your life will be once you fully understand how to control your thoughts, feelings, and actions. If you are ready to make that dream-life your reality, I encourage you to read this book with an open mind and a willingness to try something new.

Get ready to be amazed at how quickly you can take charge of your life!

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Written Just for Teen Girls
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Science-Backed, Teen-Tested Tools
Mindset methods grounded in real psychology.

HELP HER CHANGE FOR GOOD

One book sparks change, but this bundle gives you the complete system for habits, mindset, and memory working together.
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Makes her routine easier — read, reflect, and feel better daily.
A Healed Mind teen girls paperback book with colorful illustrated cover featuring young girls, soft matte finish, 6x9 inches

The User’s Guide to the Teen Mind

Explains how her thoughts, beliefs, and feelings really work (in teen-friendly language she’ll trust)
Builds real self-esteem and confidence using psychology-backed techniques
Replaces negative beliefs with empowering ones so she feels capable instead of overwhelmed
A Healed Mind teen girls spiral-bound companion journal with light pink cover, elastic band closure, lined pages, and floral

Teen Girls Spiral Bound Companion Journal

Turns the book’s lessons into daily habits she can practice
Helps her process thoughts and feelings safely instead of bottling them up
Creates a safe place for honesty, clarity, and growth
Pinkie Promise Bracelets: sterling silver heart charm, pink leather cord, adjustable lobster clasp, brand A Healed Mind

Pinky Promise Bracelets: Compass